Friday, March 11, 2011
Lyrics Nobody-Wonder Girl (English Version)
You know I still love you baby
And it will never change (Saranghae)
CHORUS
I want nobody nobody but you
I want nobody nobody but you
How can I be with another
I dont want any other
I want nobody nobody nobody nobody
Why are you trying to
To make me leave you
I know what you're thinking
Baby why aren't you listening
How can I just
Just love someone else and
Forget you completely
When I know you still love me
Telling me you're not good enough
My life with you if just to tough
You know its not right so
Just stop and come back boy
How can this be
When we were meant to be
REPEAT CHORUS
Why cant we just just be like this cause
Its you that I need and nothing else until the end
Who else can ever make me feel the way I
I feel when I'm with you no one ever do
Telling me you're not good enough
My life with you is just to tough
You know me enough so
You know what I need boy
Right next to you is where I need to be
REPEAT CHORUS
I dont want nobody body
I dont want nobody body
Honey you know Its you that I want
Its you that I need why cant you see
REPEAT CHORUS
Back to the days when we were so young
And wild and free nothing else matters
Other than you and me so tell me why cant it be
Please lets live my life my way
Why do you push me away
I dont want nobody nobody nobody nobody
But You
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Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Want It, Need It
Lagi satu cerita hari tu saya janji nak sambung tapi tak bersambung-sambung juga...heheheheheh
So untuk hari ni, Just for sharing..ada banyak kebenaraan di artikel ini:-
Read this and let it sink in forever and ever.....
Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.
But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had. Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'
Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.
Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yes terday, Hahahaha . . ..'
Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.
But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!
That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.
But I'm not just talking about marriage.
I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'
I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?
The main message??? So....ermmmm..... Lu fikirlah sendiri.....
Posted by ritaemilia at 11:24 PM 3 comments
Labels: cinta, frienships, love, notes, relationship
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Bukan Cinta Biasa - Siri 1
Bersawang dah blog ni..;-). Kasihan kamu orang, minta saya kemaskini cepat-cepat, blog ni. Sebenarnya, saya dalam keadaan kurang memuaskan. Cuaca di Kuala Lumpur amat panas. Bagaimana ya, orang KL hidup? Serasanya di Johor Bahru ini lebih sejuk dari Kuala Lumpur, sebenarnya saya ingin mengatakan, keadaan "hometown saya ni lebih nyaman dan tenteram... ;-)!
What...!! Apa yang kau merepek ni rita...???? Mari saya ceritakan apa yang berlaku.
Terasa sedih hati ini...cewah...., bilamana tak ramai orang tahu saya datang. Jauh pula tu. Tersesat lagi...ih...ih...ih... Apapun, hari Khamis lepas saya bertolak ke Kuala Lumpur, seperti biasa menggunakan pesawat MAS Mh bla...bla....(malas nak drive) wargh.....sampai kat KLIA tiada yang jemput....(bukan apa ni misi rahsia, kawan-kawan taktahu ni...sendiri cari penyakitlah ni...heheheh)
Tiket pergi dan balik sudah pun dibeli....semangat untuk menghadirkan diri dalam perjumpaan reunion sahabat sekuliah, memang ditunggu-tunggu...maklumlah....dengan harapan,majlis kali ini akan mengubah persepsi saya mengenai sesetengah orang, lagipun inilah teman-teman lama tempat saya berdiskusi, mentelaah pelajaran,bertukar pendapat, berbual, berkenalan dan sebagainya. Semangat mesti tinggi bukan?
Saya menginap di , Cititel, Midvalley......Tiada kenalan kat hotel ni, ini yang leceh....maka terpaksalah melabur sejumlah wang gaji bulan lepas kat hotel ni...bukan apa ini sahaja hotel yang agak strategik dengan shopping mallnya hehehehheh...
Malamnya,saya ambik teksi, untuk ke Bukit Bintang..., saya berjalan-jalan, seorang diri menyusur kaki lima Bukit Bintang. Orang memang ramai, tetapi, dari Timur Tengah paling ramai. Sampaikan penanda jalan menggunakan bahasa Arab, ada kafe siber menggunakan bahasa Arab, dan kedai yang menjual hidangan timur tengah..sahlah Bukit Bintang, ni syurga untuk PAk Arab dan Mak Arab sekeluarga.....
Disini, banyak ragam manusia yang dapat ditonton. Dari yang selekeh-seselekehnya, sehingga yang kemas-sekemasnya. Lagi satu, menjelang tengah malam, saya lihat ramai perempuan berhalkum di kawasan ini. Bagi kamu mungkin biasa. Tetapi, bagi saya, kalau boleh berjalan terang-terangan tanpa segan silu, ia amat menakutkan! Abih tu buatpalah kau berjalan sorang-sorang kat situ Rita....???? hheheheh gatal kaki ni....
Letihlah pulak, teringin nak call kawan, pi makan-makan...tapi sabar....takyah nak kecoh-kecoh...esok perjumpaaan baru lah suprise....!!!
Pelita Nasi Kandar.....
REUNION Tak rasmi...hehehh
Lokasi tempat perjumpaan pun masih samar-samar...ni kira hentam jer ni ikut kaki...heheheh...
Jadi saya pagi-pagi lagi dah ambil LRT untuk ke KLCC.....Diberitahu,oleh akak dalam LRT tadi tu, bahawa, saya perlu meneruskan perjalanan, apabila keluar dari Stesen LRT KLCC. ...
Ya, saya harus berjalan terus, tanpa menoleh kiri dan kanan. Dikatanya lagi, kamu akan nampak binaan bangunan yang sedang dalam "pembuatan". Ya saya nampak...... dan saya harus teruskan jua perjalanan ini. namun, saya berjalan ke Jalan P Ramlee. Melilau mencari Bangunan Getah Malaysia, gagal dijumpai. Hampir sejam berjalan-jalan, berpusing mencari restoran tersebut.
KLCC sudah ditawaf dua kali. Lutut, betis, dan peha terasa begitu sengal. Amat sengal....Serasa tak mampu berjalan lagi....nilah akibat malas hendak bertanya....
Pikir punya pikir, saya terpaksa menelefon Julia...
"Hello ..Julia.... Rita ni..."
"Hai Rita...alahai rugi kau tak datang KL ni...ramai yang hadir..."
"Alahai aku dah memang rugi ni...rugi tenaga...kak oiiii...aku sesat ni..."
"Sesat...?? Kau kat mana ni Rita...???"
"aku kat KLCC ni dah berpusing-pusing banyak kali, masih tak jumpa..."
"Wahhh...!!! Kau kat Kl...heheehe"
"Syuuuu...jangan bising....aku nak bagi suprise...tapi rupanya aku yang kena suprise...hahahha"
"Okey....takpa kau tunggu situ nanti aku suruh orang jemput...."
Pendek cerita......telah lima belas minit aku dok melilau kat pancuran air KLCC....tiba-tiba terdengar suara memberi salam....!!! yang macam serasi jer bunyinya...adakah...?? mungkin tidak...?? Ahhhh, lalu aku menoleh kearah suara tersebut sambil menjawab salam....
Haahh...fendi...!!!! jangkaan ku benar...jejaka yang berdiri dihadapan ku ini...ialah...bekas teman lelaki ku....emmmm memang bukan cinta biasa....!!!
Ergghhh.. jaga kau Julia.....bisik hati kecil ku.....
Bersambunglah pulak.......;-)
Posted by ritaemilia at 7:22 PM 3 comments
Labels: cinta, gathering, jalan-jalan, personal, teman
Monday, March 23, 2009
How to Get More Sleep When Working Overnights..;-)
Semalaman saya tak tidur untuk menyiapkan "assignment", yang sudah lama tak disiapkan. Sudah hampir seminggu saya bertungkus-lumus menyediakan bahannya akhirnya saya mampu untuk tersenyum lebar, hati saya puas walaupun hanya sempat tidur hanya satu jam sahaja.
Pagi-pagi lagi saya dah bergerak ke Pejabat, untuk membentangkan "assigment" tersebut...Saya rasa macam mimpi dan terawang-awang semasa drive tadi, maklumlah tak cukup tidur.Sampai kena hon...dek jejaka kacak ber BMW Isport...nak mengurat kot...( padahal.. lampu dah hijau pun masih tak jalan lagi...i'm sorry...hehehe)
Sampai office tepat jam 9.00, dah bermula meeting, dan nampaknya saya berjaya membuat pembentangan "assigment" tersebut dengan bergayanya....cehhh....
.... Dah boss dok senyum-senyum lepas meeting..kira okey lah tu...lagi okey bila saya minta "excuse", Nak rehat dia bagi "green light"....haa apa lagi start kereta terus ke Grand BlueWave Hotel, ambik bilik and tidor time.....sekarang dah pukul 11.00...okey lah.. saya nak tidor dulu...bye... ;-)
pesstt..takleh pi Hyatt , kang tak pasal-pasal tak jadi tidor....abih tu ramai sangat kenal., kang dituduh tidur, masa kerjer..(memang pun, tapi legal tau...)....kat eden garden pun takleh kang tak pasal-pasal pi shoppinglah pulak... ;-)
Posted by ritaemilia at 7:34 PM 4 comments
Labels: assignment, happy, pejabat
Thursday, March 19, 2009
PPSMI and my VISA
This evening was nice and quiet. Just the way I like it. I spent the evening watching TV with my parents. Before then, obviously my sister drove me insane with her Algebra and Geometry homework. However, I am learning to be a lot more patient. I discovered that it is a lot easier for me to teach her more advanced math than the old elementary math..... (Is worth to learn Sciences and Math in English...Say Boleh to PPSMI.. ;-))
Maybe I just don’t think that simply anymore, mathematical nor in real life....Just see my growing debt credit limits.... ;-)
I am trying not to use my savings at all, and only use my credit card. ASAP is killing me, so I try to only use credit card for emergencies. It sucks not having an much income for this month and paying a bills. I see my savings slowly decreasing and it is giving me a bad migraine. Thank God I am going to get a cheque from my past assigments project...That’s like a 4 month’s salary worth.... ;-)
So be patient...don't used your credit card like a crazy..but im love to shopping with my friendly visa... ;-)
Posted by ritaemilia at 2:59 AM 1 comments
Labels: debt, depressed, online money
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Bloodshed in Gaza
I have been quiet about the bloodshed in Gaza the past, because the more I talked about it, the more I felt my heart was being squeezed to death. I couldn’t watch anymore dead children. It’s not right, full stop......
I am utterly disgusted. Not from Israel. Not from Hamas, but the entire world! You know what the problem is? The problem is that those post WWII people are in power. These baby boomers are still alive and still controlling the world. Our generation is so much different. No wonder we don’t get along with older people at all. The world CHANGED so much, but they haven’t. Let them keep fighting, let them kill each other. I don’t care anymore, but the world just sits there and watches? That’s what disgusts me. The civilian causalities and the prolonging of this stupid war is making me cringe from disgust.
You know what hurts the most? Seeing those mothers cry over their 2 or 3 year old children. That’s what kills me. It’s a humanitarian issue now, and the world just watches a bunch of numbers increase! When you think too much, you get a HUGE headache and you feel the veins in your eyes are ready to pop! .... Man.. the world is a messed up place!
Posted by ritaemilia at 7:30 AM 0 comments
Thursday, December 25, 2008
What im thinking...?
Tell me what time is now? It’s ok, I will tell you. It is past 3:30 am. Yes, it is a little late for a person who is just sitting there doing nothing, and cannot sleep. Did I ever mention that I suffer from insomnia? I think I did in the past when I spent up to 72 hours wide awake and writing the silliest posts ever. Yes, those were the days. However, why am I still awake today when I am worry free? I need an answer! Where the hell is a shrink when you need ‘em?
My insomnia pushed me to the limit tonight. I am fully awake. I don’t even yawn. I am more alert now than after consuming my mug of coffee in the morning.
Do you see my point? I am not on crack here or anything. I am being serious. I am just a bit confused today and felt like smashing something, but I couldn’t find anything breakable and worthless.
Posted by ritaemilia at 5:29 PM 0 comments
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
You right....???
There is a major difference between animals and humans. Obviously it is the human intellectual thought process that is completely different than an animal’s. Moreover, there is a difference between choosing someone you want to spend your life with, and someone else choosing them for you.
Why is that?
Some people think it is a weak personality on the man’s side. Some think that parents care too much about society’s acceptance of another family’s social standard that entices them to take such an action. Others believe that beauty is what they are seeking; unfortunately, only physical beauty.,
I am not sure why people think that physical beauty will last forever; last time I checked a biology book, there was this thing called aging. Why can’t those mothers see that in the mirror? Or are they blind and can’t tell that they grew up as well, and honestly, many of them are not that attractive anymore.
So why do these mothers take that extra step to choose a wife for their sons, why can’t the sons do it them selves? So, is the girl chosen supposed to be a treasured ornament for her son and that’s it? I don’t get it. Why do these girls accept such a proposal? A girl barely knows the guy, and probably only saw him a few times and made small conversations with him, and ends up marrying him.
Why can’t a girl choose for her self? Why can’t a girl say NO!
What if things turned around and a girl wants to choose those qualities in a man, as in beauty and attractiveness? Not many guys would end being married at that rate of selection. So, why can’t a girl say, I want this guy! Why is it always the mother of the man making those decisions? Or better yet, why can’t two people choose each other? Why the middle person? Why let someone else do it for you?
I am lucky because I am as stubborn as a goat. I am also sick of both ends of the spectrum. You know what’s funny, I get so many people emailing me through my site per day asking me the same question, “can I have your phone please? Can I chat with you and get to know you?” Although, I specifically wrote a warning saying don’t send me such a proposal, but to no avail. No one reads, or they read and think I am joking. Why would a girl like me, at my age, not like a nice email from a guy who is far away, well educated, well off, and is polite enough to email me?
I don’t want to answer that in one line or paragraph, because my real answer is for you to read my entire blog. See what I have been through, read my perception of life, and tell me, why would I? I made a choice, although it is not the smartest choice and looked down upon in this society I was inevitably born into, but I made it for my peace of mind. I keep thinking, what is my purpose in my life? What have I done that will make someone else think that she is worth it? In my eyes, what has that guy done and his perception of life and what he wants from it that will make me change my mind?
I guess I am picky, and I have the right to be. No one makes my decisions for me. No one can tell me what is better or worse, and I have to live my life, grow up, and make the best choice I can ever make. It’s for my sake, and no one else’s.
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Labels: love
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri
Posted by ritaemilia at 4:19 PM 1 comments
Labels: welcome's
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
I lost my self
I wanted to write every day about my life, but I don’t know if I can today. I have just been feeling sick. I am not physically sick that I can’t walk or talk like some people think. I am just tired and unhappy. I have no joy in life anymore, and I feel lost and confused.
I am completely lost. I really am. I don’t feel like my self anymore. I forgot who I am, and what I tried to pursue in life. I keep thinking that no, I want to shape up my destiny. I want to control it, but I can’t. I am just really depressed and very stressed out. It’s not just work, but life in general. I want a change and need a chance so badly and so quickly. I think it is just patience. I lost every ounce of it and it is making me depressed!
Ahh.. I am just going to sleep. I will go to work tomorrow and will say… quang...quang...quang.....
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Friday, June 20, 2008
All day deleting
I always wondered why I was such an expressive writer. It’s because of all the emails. People who know me in person know that I communicate mostly via writing such as: emails, text messages, and chat. In the final year that I knew him, the only communication that we had was through email or text messages. He didn’t want to talk to me, or see me, but he used email to show his true colours. The colours were a bit faded, but I increased the contrast to see better. I really did.
I pity my self till this day that I used this blog as revenge. Revenge to not only him, but anyone that bothered me. I made it public, and I couldn’t stop. I couldn’t end what I started, and I let it be the tool to end everything. I had to end it. No other method worked. I wanted to end it by hate. It was the only way that I could think of. I became heartless towards him and made him hate me and hate everyone around me. I knew he was weak, and those who are weak are easily manipulated and believe anything you say. He believed it. I ended it. I spent all day reading, and all day deleting. That’s all I did.
Posted by ritaemilia at 6:56 PM 0 comments
Thursday, June 5, 2008
One-sided love
I was reading a few articles about relationships and I came across the term “one-sided love.” Every time I hear or read that phrase I quiver in my seat and think of what I did to my life. You can ask so many people if they were ever in a one-sided love relationship, and they would say yes. Others may argue that there is no such thing as one-sided love. Love has to be mutual. I disagree with that.
Love is not mutual. Not all the time. Sometimes people pretend to love you for various unknown selfish reasons, and you think it is mutual love. Sometimes people pretend to love you because they just need the company and to show off. Once you see any sign of this happening in a relationship, the other person is being used and abused emotionally. Then you automatically know that the relationship will end soon and become a long lasting what if.
What if? Ahh.. I think I am having a bad day. I think it has to do with my pointless life. It also has to do with it being wedding season and I keep getting dragged to people’s weddings that I don’t know and wonder why they are 6 years younger than me and getting married.
Does my life suck or what?
Posted by ritaemilia at 9:46 AM 0 comments
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Rahsia Perniagaan Digital.
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Posted by ritaemilia at 2:19 AM 0 comments
Labels: duit internet, online money
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
I just want to remaining yours about...warning signs of suicide...Please don't do this at home!But if you are going to do it, here's a package that will keep you somewhat signs before your harm yourself... ;-)
- Talking about death, self harm or suicide
- Feeling helpless or hopeless
- Feeling worthless or like a burden to others
- Putting affairs in order or saying “goodbye”
- Acting recklessly, as if one has a “death wish”
- Seeking out weapons or pills that could be used to commit suicide
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Saturday, March 15, 2008
Find an ending reason
Is my writing that different to who I really am that people would rather read than talk to me?
I never understood people, and at times I really wished I never made this blog, but I had my reasons. Now, I have no reason to keep writing. I don’t benefit from writing on here or present anything interesting to the world that someone else out there hasn’t done. It’s better to just have a private diary and just write on it from now on.
I don’t know what to do anymore, but I know that maintaining a daily blog has become pointless.
Posted by ritaemilia at 5:57 AM 0 comments
Labels: personal
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
What’s wrong with playing internet?
Plot 1
“Get off the computer! Look at your red eyes. It it bulging out like a frog!”
My sister said,
“You are not even winning! So stop playing frog eyes!! mauahahaha”
Arghhh!!
Plot 2
A long journey in a non-airconditioned car is simply tortuous. On A recent trip from JB to Malacca, my car’s air-con unit began playing up by blowing lukewarm barely one hour into the journey. Five minutes later, a loud screech could be heard above the sound of “Road to Hell”.
I switched the air-con unit off and turned the music down. I have a choice, I can either tolerate the heat, quietly, or I can return to JB and leave for Malacca another day after everything is in working order again. The desire to get to Malacca was so huge that I agreed to put up with a two-hour drive on what just had to be one of the hottest days of the year.
I, on the other hand, was feeling extremely disgruntled. Less than a week before, I’d had my car serviced and had paid a Rm900 for a new air-con compressor with a others service charges. As I drove along with the windows down, I became hotter and hotter, and I felt I had to vent my spleen.
So I phoned my mechanic.
“My air-con isn’t working,” I said.
“Uh!” came back his response.
“Do you realise how hot it is today?”
“Bring your car in and I will have a look at it.”
“I can’t do that. I’m on way to Malacca. Do you realise how many miles without air-con that is?”
“Er, I don’t ?”
“Goodbye.”
Halfway into my journey, I pulled into a RNR Pagoh. Traffic in the parking lot was bumper to bumper, and the fumes coming through my open window had almost reached asphyxiation level. I parked my car illegally. When your clothes are sticking to your body and your lungs are filled with carbon monoxide fumes, the last thing you want to do is follow the rules. You want a cold drink in a cold environment.
I entered a KFC restaurants . Big mistake, It was packed to the seams with hungry travellers and staffed by people who did everything at an excruciatingly slow pace. And they called it fast food. Mind you, some of the slowness could be put down to those indecisive customers who only start thinking about what they want to eat when they’re asked. It never occurs to them that standing in line presents a good opportunity to study the menu.
Asserting the rights of seniority, I claimed the only available chair in the restaurant. I stood there and calmly ate their ayam goreng.
One hours later, when I arrived in Malacca, I stumbled out of my car with a painful sunburn down one side of my upper torso and a small box of KFC in my hands. I would have to make the return journey to JB under similar conditions, but I didn’t want to think about it just then. I had other things on my mind. Like, should I have the cold air sirap limau first...muahahahaaa
Posted by ritaemilia at 8:35 PM 2 comments
Labels: personal
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Stop google the Bottle
I got all of our errands completed this weekend. I love the feeling of accomplishment. So I love the tracking software I use on this blog. It shows me how people found the site whether it was by an internet search, a blog, an email, etc.
Well I'm doubtful they meant "trails" and pretty sure they were looking for free "trials", but I admit to giggling out loud when I read that.
So how in the world did that phrase get them to My blog?...thanks to a bottle, thankyou very much!!... ;-)
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Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Terenganu sushi appetizers
So after EIGHT hours in the car on Wednesday, I finally arrived in Terengganu at 6.00 pm for my company meeting. Traffic was a bitch and it was raining almost the entire time.
In Trengganu, I had a good time, my girlfriends, fiza and nani was helped me to load the truck with my working paper ;-) and drop them off at my hotel room at Grand Continental Hotel. We then went out for a few drinks and some Terenganu sushi appetizers ( Keropok Lekor... hihihi). So after Sushi Rock appetizers, we went to Dinner...wahhh... was sweety! It was different not being at my hometowns (more spice) but it was nice to create some new memories and after I looked at my watch and realized we had been "food shoppings", for 6 hours straight, I rallied the troops and we went home to my hotels room for sleeping therapy session ....!!!!.
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Saturday, February 2, 2008
A coffee cup, like it or not ?
drink another few glasses of water
to clear my throat and tongue.
Coffee was a threat to the lives of unborn babies but by today it was the secret to beating ovarian cancer.
So if the experts are so confused about coffee, how do the rest of us cope?
The best solution, probably, is to believe what you want.
If you can’t face the day without a caffeine shot, you’ll want to read it can ward off cancer, boost female sex drive and keep your liver healthy.
But if you’re trying to wean yourself off it, you’ll want to hear it can damage sperm, trigger insomnia and raise the risk of heart attacks.
So if you can pick your own drink, why not pick your own story?
LIKE IT
- Stops baldness: Caffeine can block chemicals that damage hair follicles. The bad news is you’d have to drink 60 coffees a day to have any effect.
- Keeps skin healthy: Drinking coffee combined with regular exercise protects against skin cancer, say US scientists.
- Prevents cancer: Women who down several cups a day are less likely to get ovarian cancer, claim experts at Harvard Medical School. But decaf doesn’t work.
- Boosts sex drive: Fellas asked back for coffee are in luck. It boosts female sex drive (but only if the drinker isn’t used to it).
- Aids memory: Three cups a day can keep a woman’s memory fresh and ward off dementia, according to French research.
- Stops diabetes: Six or seven coffees a day may ward off Type 2 diabetes – even if you are overweight and do not exercise, a Finnish study claims.
- Fights eye problems: Two cups a day can help to prevent blepharospasm – an irritating eyelid tremor which can persist for months.
- Keeps liver healthy: Four cups a day can slash risk of cirrhosis of the liver by 80 per cent.
- Promotes insomnia: After-dinner coffee causes insomnia by blocking the flow of brain hormone melatonin that sends us to sleep.
- Doesn’t pep you up: A morning cuppa doesn’t actually make you more alert, says Bristol University research. It just counters withdrawal symptoms you have in the night.
- Damages sperm: Men who down three cups a day may risk infertility. US scientists claim it can sometimes damage sperm.
- Triggers heart attacks: Too much coffee may spark a heart attack, especially in those with certain genes that slow the rate at which the body processes caffeine.
- Causes miscarriage: New research suggests just two coffees a day may be enough to cause miscarriage.
- Interacts with drugs: Downing a couple of paracetamol with your morning coffee could damage your liver beyond repair.
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Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Four possibilities to receive ruined
IF you've already got the winters of blues - the read thing you want is tons suffering on your own. But dark nights CAN lead tons dark endings if you're emergency careful, I has the FOUR Main relationship wreckers for couples ton watch our for. :
A) Poor communication
When couples aren’t talking enough, little niggles become monster issues, with rows on money, sex, work, children and housework topping the list.
But relationship psychotherapist Paula Hall says although arguments start of from a difference in opinion, couples should be able to negotiate a compromise – if they are chatty and patient.
‘Talk, talk, talk and more talk,” says Paula.
“It can be difficult when you are both busy and exhausted, but it’s the most important thing you can do.”
B) Routines
Routines might be comfortable and secure, but they can also create boredom.
It’s a major issue when sex becomes a routine chore. When you know what is going to happen from first to last base it can seem pointless to bother because the excitement is gone.
“Arguing about how often to have sex is nearly always about feeling loved and cared for,” says Hall.
“A sex therapist can help with this but couples should try to spice things up in the bedroom with things they have not tried before.
“Try acting out a fantasy or spending more time just concentrating on pleasing your partner.
C) Not making enough time for one-another
Your partner should be your best friend and you should want to spend time with them.
If you have a demanding job, children and different groups of mates it can be hard to find time for just the two of you.
But try to re-create the days when you first started seeing each other and made time to ‘hang out’.
D) Insecurities
Personal insecurities eat away at a relationship faster than a swarm of locusts at the salad counter - creating jealousy and paranoia.
It can result from a bad experience in a past relationship, which has left you with low self-esteem.
As her plastic surgeon would testify, actor Melanie Griffith clearly has insecurities about ageing.
Even her toyboy husband, heartthrob Antonio Banderas, agrees.
"Hollywood stars are not supposed to be perfection,” he said. “I think it is a mistake. I like her the way she is. Wrinkles are beautiful."
If your partner is happy with you, try to be happy with yourself.
Having that confidence will make you even more attractive and will nip the jealousy thing in the bud.
- Go to the movies
- Go to a restaurant for a drink and talk about fun things – NOT about housework or the kids
- Have dinners for two and snuggle up to watch a DVD
- Go on a weekend trip away together
- Get the house to yourself and give each other a long massage
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